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How to Communicate With Customers
3 min read
- Why Seller Communication Matters
- Where Sellers Communicate With Customers
- When Sellers SHOULD Contact Customers
- When Sellers Should NOT Contact Customers
- How to Write Good Customer Messages
- What Sellers Should NEVER Say
- Tone Guidelines (This Matters)
- Communicating During Returns & Disputes
- Dispatchment vs Seller-Managed Communication
- How Communication Protects Seller Ratings
- When to Escalate Instead of Replying
- Final Rule (Memorize This)
(Orders, Returns & Exchanges – Seller Guide)
Clear, professional communication builds trust, protects seller ratings, and reduces returns, refunds, and disputes.
On Kingston Express, how you communicate matters just as much as how you ship — especially for orders Dispatched by Kingston Express.
This guide explains when to message customers, what to say, what to avoid, and how to stay protected.
Why Seller Communication Matters #


Good communication:
- Reduces cancellations
- Prevents negative reviews
- Defuses delivery complaints
- Strengthens buyer confidence
📌 Silence causes more problems than delays.
Where Sellers Communicate With Customers #


All customer communication should happen through:
- The order messaging system
- The seller dashboard
📌 Never move conversations off-platform.
When Sellers SHOULD Contact Customers #
✅ Order Clarification Needed #


Contact the customer if:
- Address details are unclear
- Delivery instructions conflict
- Contact information is missing
✔ Keep the message short and specific.
✅ Seller-Managed Delivery Updates #

If you manage delivery:
- Confirm shipment
- Notify of delays
- Coordinate availability
📞 Seller-managed orders require proactive updates.
✅ Issue Resolution or Follow-Up #


Message customers when:
- A delivery attempt fails
- A return is approved
- More information is required
📌 Clear updates reduce anxiety.
When Sellers Should NOT Contact Customers #
❌ During Normal Dispatchment Transit #


For Dispatched by Kingston Express orders:
- Do NOT message just to say “it’s on the way”
- Tracking already provides updates
📦 Unnecessary messages create confusion.
❌ To Blame or Argue #


Never message customers to:
- Blame couriers
- Blame customs
- Argue about fault
⚠️ This often leads to disputes.
How to Write Good Customer Messages #

Follow This Formula: #
- Acknowledge the message
- State the current status
- Explain next steps (if any)
✅ Good Example (Dispatchment Order) #
“Thanks for reaching out. Your order is currently being handled by Kingston Express and is still in transit. Delivery is actively monitored, and we’ll update you if anything changes.”
✅ Good Example (Seller-Managed Order) #
“Thanks for your message. I’m confirming delivery details with the courier and will update you shortly.”
What Sellers Should NEVER Say #
❌ “This isn’t my problem”
❌ “The courier messed up”
❌ “You’ll definitely get it today”
❌ “I’ll refund you now” (without review)
❌ “Customs always delays things”
⚠️ These statements increase disputes and bad reviews.
Tone Guidelines (This Matters) #


✔ Calm
✔ Respectful
✔ Neutral
✔ Professional
❌ Emotional
❌ Defensive
❌ Sarcastic
❌ Accusatory
📌 Tone protects ratings.
Communicating During Returns & Disputes #


Best Practice: #
- Stick to policy
- Explain the process
- Avoid promises
Example:
“Your return request is under review. Once the item is inspected, we’ll update you on the next steps.”
Dispatchment vs Seller-Managed Communication #
| Situation | Dispatchment | Seller-Managed |
|---|---|---|
| Delivery updates | Automatic | Seller |
| Delay explanation | Minimal | Required |
| Courier contact | ❌ Seller | ✔ Seller |
| Returns handling | Platform-led | Seller-led |
📌 Know your role before responding.
How Communication Protects Seller Ratings #


Good communication:
- Reduces negative reviews
- Prevents escalation
- Shows professionalism
📊 Customers remember how you responded — not just what happened.
When to Escalate Instead of Replying #
Contact **Kingston Express Support instead of messaging if:
- A dispute is active
- A dispatchment delivery looks incorrect
- A customer becomes abusive
📧 Escalate early — don’t argue.
Final Rule (Memorize This) #
👉 Respond calmly, stick to facts, and never promise outcomes you don’t control.
Sellers who communicate professionally — and trust Dispatched by Kingston Express where applicable — resolve issues faster, protect ratings, and build long-term customer trust 💬📦🚚

